According to Caitlin Friedman and Kimberly Yorio, the authors of The Girl’s Guide To Being Boss (Without Being A Bitch), a woman who has just been promoted needs to learn how to be a mentor more than a manager and how to be firm but fair. Written in a straightforward manner, the book includes bulleted lists, succinct paragraphs, personal anecdotes, and interviews with women leaders, making it a quick read.
Specifically the book offers quick tips on how to take credit for ideas, deal with office politics, and, most important, how to take responsibility for your mistakes. Additionally, the authors include advice from women around the country who are currently coaches, human resource directors, and social workers so that you can hear what they have to say about the challenges and opportunities awaiting you as the Chick-In-Charge.
By acknowledging that studies, since the 1980s, have consistently shown that the same techniques used successfully for men in leadership roles are not as effective when used by women, the authors encourage women workers to overcome these difficulties through a compilation of personal anecdotes and interviews. These interviews demonstrate how other female leaders use patience, strength, wisdom, and nurturing in an effective manner that actually makes them better managers than men. Saying that, it must be noted that this manual also covers issues such as managerial styles and methods that would be beneficial to a leader of either gender. One problem that I noted with the book, however, was that while many of the concepts were worthwhile, they stopped short of explaining how to implement the suggestions, for example, how to avoid crying in the workplace or how to handle giving a negative review to an employee.
However, by the conclusion of the book, I realized the authors’ goal was to empower and inspire women to achieve their corporate goals by harnessing their innate interpersonal skills, that make them natural leaders. Given all the pluses of this book and the fact that it is an easy read, I would recommend it as a worthwhile investment for the male or female manager whether they work in the corporate office or a small retail enterprise.
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